Where we find ourselves today is due to the choices we made.  Our choices determine or future, not what happened in the past, not by blaming others for where we are and what we couldn’t achieve.  Our choices are our own doing.

Some time back Julie Perrine shared her acronym of the word CHOICE – I’d like to share my version.


Sometimes it takes a lot of courage to do what we feel we ought to, go in the direction we think is right and have no idea what the outcome is going to be.  It is not easy.  We have fears and doubts on the choices we make, but we need to push through, carry on moving forward, don’t lose sight of the light at the end of the tunnel, onward bound towards your goal.  Whatever comes your way to make you stumble, get up and keep moving on.  If you need to ask for help along the way, it takes courage to admit that you need help in the first place, but it doesn’t mean you are any less the wiser.  A good support is always recommended.

Some choices are easier to make than others.  It is a definite, gut-feel, know-for sure decision you make.  The path is not always rosy or clear or smooth sailing, because you have set your mind to it and you stick to your guns.


You need to be honest with yourself and your choice.  Don’t set targets that are out of reach or a very long stretch.  You know your limits.  You know in what timeframe you are able to achieve what you set your mind to do.  Yes, a goal should be a bit of a stretch otherwise it is too easy. Be honest with the people you are working with, who you are going to work with and who support you.


You need to believe in yourself and what you are capable of.  You need to believe that you are good at what you do and that you can achieve anything you set your mind to.  Always see the green light instead of the red one.  The glass is only half full, not half empty.  Take the “T” off can’t and you can.  Tell yourself “Nothing is IMPOSSIBLE, because I AM POSSIBLE”.  Self-talk, belief and support all add to your optimistic view of your future.


This is a very important attribute to have when making your choices.  People need to believe you, trust you and support you.  They won’t do that if you are not what you seem.  Don’t try and cover up or paint a pretty picture to make yourself look good.  People will see right through you.  Hold you head up high, remember your beliefs and values you grew up with, those will play an important role in your future and that of the people you associate with. Accept responsibility and accountability when it is needed.


Go out confidently, walk straight and tall, smile, hold your head up and walk with confidence.  Don’t hesitate or procrastinate – you believe you can do it, others believe in you so take that first step – confidently.  If you lack confidence, who is going to believe you or believe in you?  Show them who you are and what you are made of.


Whatever you do, do it with excellence.  Do it at your absolute best – not someone else’s best, your best.  After all you know how far you can push yourself.  And no matter what the situation, no matter how toxic your relationship or workspace is, you continue doing and going at whatever you  have set your mind to and make sure you continue doing what you love to do at your best.


That is the road you have started travelling on, and that is the road you continue with influencing others along the way, impressing and inspiring people and helping people to grow and empower themselves.  That is true success, not just you.  Make sure the legacy you leave behind is one where people who have grown and made it by themselves, have done so because you took the time to help them and encourage them – no matter how small or insignificant it may seem – it only takes one.

So the CHOICES you make will show your COURAGE, you will be HONEST with yourself and others and go forward with an OPTIMISTIC point of view.  Your INTEGRITY will draw people to you and your will begin to grow more CONFIDENT within yourself because you will be doing everything to a standard of EXCELLENCE and your will reap the rewards of SUCCESS on your journey.

I encourage you to make the right CHOICES – it is worth it.

Michele Thwaits May 2016

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